Tuesday, April 26, 2011

In Praise of Pink (Toenails), Masculinity, and Transgender Propaganda

When we look at what the factors are that make life so miserable for young gays and lesbians, it’s tempting for progressives to point the finger at religious traditions that are hostile to sexual pluralism. But the young men in American high schools who are beating up other boys whom they suspect of being gay are rarely doing so in order to comply with a misunderstood dictate from the Torah or the Pauline epistles. It’s not faith that drives the hate as much as it is an overwhelming desire to establish masculine bona fides. “I torment faggots, therefore I can’t be one; I beat up queers, therefore I’m a man.” That toxic equation may be aided and abetted by conservative religion, but it isn’t rooted in it. Rather, the hateful behavior is rooted in the rigid rules of American masculinity, a masculinity predicated on a contempt for and a paranoia about even the slightest whiff of femininity among the be-penised. ~ "Homosociality and Homophobia: Why the Distorted Rules of “Manhood” are the Real Problem" by Hugo Schwyzer

As a little one, I adored pink and covered myself with it. And then at some point, I started to hate it. Perhaps it had to do with being outnumbered by brothers? I don’t know. La
ter, I started distancing myself from masculinity. I straight-up ran away from it after leaving home, surrounding myself almost exclusively by other women during a time when I equated masculinity with violence and power-over. Now, I crave spaces made up of all kinds of genders. And I love to hear male-identified folks discussing masculinity in a way that is conscious of and challenges misogyny (women-hating), homophobia, and power dynamics. I also enjoy observing what kind of masculinity attracts me. At the Reproductive Rights Conference that I recently attended, I sat in on the Masculinity panel where I bore witness to four masculine-identified folks talking about their relationships, favorite music, childhood, privilege, and their vivid gender expressions. (To see projects that some of the panelists are apart of creating, check out Interseqtion and The Brown Boi Project) My assumptions were challenged in many ways by hearing the stories of folks who may feel most comfortable with a hyper-masculine presentation and who also use a female pronoun. Or folks who choose a masculine identity that challenges their upbringing, who also love their toenails painted and love glitter and faerie wings. I love this both/and (rather than either/or mentality) and the space felt really liberating to me. I've been reflecting since on the conversation about masculinity as separate from domination and misogyny, disentangling these in my mind.

As thoughts of masculinity have become more present and rolling around in my mind these past days, pink keeps coming up, as well as the theme of community response. I recently read the article Brazil Stadium Turns Pink After Faggot Chants Shock Community. In response to homophobic chants targeted at Michael Santos during a game, his volleyball teammates showed their support by wearing rainbows and pink. The larger community responded as well...



Michael Santos and his teammates


Community response - a pink stadium! and "
Vôlei Futuro Against Prejudice" banner

Soon after reading about this brillant community response to homophobic targeting, my friend sent me this clip: Stand Up! - Don't Stand for Homophobic Bullying by the BeLonG To, an organization which supports gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender youth in Ireland.





Again, positive, strong, and loving community response! More and more in the media and sometimes in our schools, workplaces, and even our own homes, we're surrounded by people on ridiculous and hateful tirades about topics that really have nothing to do with them, besides feeling threatened by their own insecurities, as if those seeking basic human rights are personally attacking them. Writing them off silently or with sarcastic remarks doesn't really do anything to make our world safer for all of us to be who we are and love who we will without fear or threat of violence, homelessness, being disowned, etc. We need to take action. And I love creative community responses like the one above.

Another public homophobic and transphobic attack has taken place recently. Targeted at a 5 year old! JCrew recently included a photo of designer Jenna Lyons giggling with her son. The scandal - her son's toenails are painted! Pink!!!!!


Media Research Center, which claims to be America's Media Watchdog whose mission is to bring balance to the news media, published J.CREW Pushes Transgendered Child Propaganda:Women's clothing company highlights pink nail-polish wearing boy in promotional email, where they write that JCrew is "targeting a new demographic - mothers of gender-confused young boys. At least, that's the impression given by a new marketing piece that features blatant propaganda celebrating transgendered children." Lyons is "exploiting Beckett (the son) behind the façade of liberal, transgendered identity politics.... Propaganda pushing the celebration of gender-confused boys wanting to dress and act like girls is a growing trend, seeping into mainstream culture."



I was speechless when I first heard these claims. How someone can see this image and instead of feeling warm and mushy inside and/or have the urge to paint their toenails pink, see gender-confusion and transgender propaganda only shows how our rigid gender-roles keep us all confined. Boys and men must stay within such a narrow path of the ever-changing rules of what it is to be a man, otherwise they are called names (often accused of being queer - as if this is a bad thing - which shows how linked sexism, misogyny, and homo/transphobia are), assaulted, even killed. When I've traveled in parts of Canada and Ireland I've been struck by some the interactions between men that I’ve witnessed - standing closer to each other, dressing nice without this calling into question their sexuality - and realized how suffocatingly limiting the rules for "manly" behavior here in the U.S. are.

When my nephew was 2, he loved pink, just like his big sister. They'd get into some pretty intense fights over who got to use the pink cup at snacktime and when I painted my nieces toenails pink, he wanted his done as well. I definitely was not going to tell my 2 year old nephew that his sister was allowed to have pink toenails, but he couldn't, or why some grownups might get bent out of shape at the appearance of his new paint job. So I went ahead and painted them. And gave them the Girls Will Be Boys Will Be Girls genderific coloring book (also available: Sometimes The Spoon Runs Away With Another Spoon and Girls Are Not Chicks coloring books), and I hope that they know that whoever they choose to be, whoever they choose to love, I will support them. Whatever pronoun they wish to be called by, whatever gender expression they choose, whoever they want to date, they have my blessing and my only concern is that they are happy and healthy and growing. And I've got a new little OOMS on the way, soon to arrive. My nephew just came up with this gender-neutral term, OOMS = Offspring of My Sibling. I thought of nephiece. His was better. (Just another part of the Transgender Propaganda Machine!)

And as always, Jon Stewart's had a hilarious response to this whole pink toenail fiasco:



Psychiatrist Keith Ablows' article on Fox News is actually even more frightening that what's included in the above clip. Responding to the text in the advertisement, he writes

"Yeah, well, it may be fun and games now, Jenna, but at least put some money aside for psychotherapy for the kid—and maybe a little for others who’ll be affected by your “innocent” pleasure. This is a dramatic example of the way that our culture is being encouraged to abandon all trappings of gender identity—homogenizing males and females when the outcome of such “psychological sterilization” [author's word choice] is not known."

He goes on,

Well, how about the fact that encouraging the choosing of gender identity, rather than suggesting our children become comfortable with the ones that they got at birth, can throw our species into real psychological turmoil—not to mention crowding operating rooms with procedures to grotesquely amputate body parts? Why not make race the next frontier? What would be so wrong with people deciding to tattoo themselves dark brown and claim African-American heritage? Why not bleach the skin of others so they can playact as Caucasians? ...These folks (at JCrew) are hostile to the gender distinctions that actually are part of the magnificent synergy that creates and sustains the human race.

First of all, who amongst us couldn't use at least a little bit of therapy?! Especially in a mainstream culture that is so brainwashed by and obsessed with the idea that heterosexuality is "normal" and that all else should be dismissed, belittled, or destroyed. Unfortunately, even for those of us that can access therapy, psychiatry as a field creates a hostile environment for those whose gender and sexual identities lay outside what's considered "normal." Transgenderism (called "gender identity disorder") is still listed in the DSM - The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, published by the American Psychiatric Association- as a mental disorder. Homosexuality was listed as a mental disorder as well, up until 1986. So, in terms of seeking out therapy to explore gender identity, unless a practitioner has done their work to explore gender both personally and systematically, and in a liberating way, rather than what is sanctioned by the field, we've got a case of trying to dismantle the master's house using the master's tools, which, as Audre Lorde writes, can not be done.

That a psychiatrist, so soon after the recent suicides by youth who endured constant bullying about their sexualities, insists on using such inflammatory language to create a vicious environment is completely unacceptable, unprofessional, and dangerous. That professionals who are supposed to support our overall health are so caught up in projecting their own personal judgments and obsessions that they refuse to accept their clients' life choices
that cause no one any harm is psychologically abusive. This is a form of violence.

Ablows’ claim of “crowding operating rooms with procedures to grotesquely amputate body parts” is not only completely medically inaccurate, it clearly shows how fear-based his entire argument is. He isn’t talking about the anatomy of those with vulvas being amputated, but he doesn’t specify his personal horror at the thought of being de-penised. Clearly, he has no clue about gender confirmation surgery, sometimes called gender reassignment surgery. This irrational claim sounds quite similar to medically-inaccurate, fear-based abstinence only sex ed programs that claim to be based on morals, but instead are completely out of touch with reality and end up actually causing more sexually transmitted infections and pregnancies. These are just the tangible results of such programs and the mentalities they’re based on – they also encourage an atmosphere of shame, secrecy, and ignorance about other’s bodies and our own. This creates fertile ground for abuse. Ablows’ comments similarly create such an atmosphere and does a disservice for not only those questioning their gender, but also the family members, friends, religious leaders, co-workers, health care providers, and other community members who care for and about them. For those interested in learning how to better support their friends and loved ones who are going through gender transition and/or confirmation surgery (specifically “female-to-male” top surgery), see Jacoby Ballard’s zines (booklets) listed on this site’s product list page. Also, the organization RU12? leads trainings for health care providers and community members focused on improving patient care to queer and transgender clients/patients.

As for Albows’ use of the term "Psychological sterilization" - With this country's long history past and present of genocide through sterilization of indigenous, Puerto Rican, Black, Japanese, and other women of color, homosexuals, and people with disabilities (though of course sometimes these identities overlap), referring to this non-event as a form of "psychological sterilization" is completely disgraceful. Dr. Ablows is drawing on his manufactured authority as an educated, upper-class, straight, white male to again speak about something he clearly knows nothing about. White people who grasp for racial parallels to bolster their own argument completely out of historical context only contribute to misunderstanding, racism, and white supremacy. Attempting to connect painting a boy-childs toenails with changing one's skin color to pretend they're members of another race is problematic in numerous ways. First, race, like gender, is socially constructed, but he talks of these like they are biological categories that threaten the whole human race if defied. Also, Caucasian is a fictitious categorization of light-skinned (white) people who wanted to create a non-African place of origin for themselves. (Details, details, but I think it's important when discussing "race" and racism to remember that much of what we've been taught, and the language that we've been given to discuss it, is confusing at best and usually perpetuates racist ideas of people being broken up into distinct races in the first place.) And it's just plain irresponsible and ignorant for a white person in the U.S. to bring up the topic of skin color without doing their homework to understand and pass on to others accurate information about the history of skin color in terms of economics/employment, class, racism, and slavery, and how it affects us still today.

It's up to us to educate ourselves because Fox News is not about giving us empowering information to understand the world around us, and to be able to see through weak and selfish arguments such as the one from Ablows, who seems to lack any integrity at all.

He was also wrong about the pink nail polish. It was not an attack on masculinity. It was a transformation of masculinity, a fabulousization of masculinity! And if we don't want his type of masculinity, which attacks people, stigmatizes gender exploration, and perpetuates homo/transphobia, then we have to change it! It is easy to write off a wealthy white man on Fox News. However, homophobia and transphobia could not thrive if it wasn't upheld daily in a million different ways - ways that we ourselves within our families, schools, homes, workplaces, places of worship, doctor's offices, organizations, and other communities act out oppressive dynamics that we were taught.

Oh, and the Ultimate Fighting Champion, Chuck Liddell, that Jon Stewart refers to? Here are his sweet feet:



Pink and black!
To the Masculinities panelists, Interseqtion
, The Brown Boi Project, BeLonG To, Girls Will Be Boys Will Be Girls coloring book creatrixes, Jenna Lyons, the players of Vôlei Futuro and all you lovely people with your pink noodles in the crowd, Chuck Liddell and his toenails, and all the others who transform masculinity daily just by being your beautiful pink-toenail-polished (if you like) selves: Thank you! You give me hope.

I’ve recently offered to all my male-identified friends and family members to paint their toes pink with non-toxic nail polish, along with an herbal footbath and foot massage. I’d love to offer the same here, but I know some of you are reading from quite far away, so I’d like to encourage you to team up and make this happen yourselves - I’ll post some herbal spa self-care info and recipes soon.

P.S. My toenails are painted pink right now. In solidarity and because I'm reclaiming the color...

Thursday, April 07, 2011

My Confession & (Healthcare) Testimonial


Healthcare is a Human Right Rally at the Statehouse 2010 & 2011!!!

As I confessed in the April Herbal & Community Health update this month, before the March 31st 2011 Senate hearing on healthcare I’d never even been in the big Senate room at the Statehouse. And this week I’m testifying in it! Sort of. I can’t physically be there, as it’s the weekend of the Reproductive Rights Conference (!), so I’ve written a testimony that my friend is going to read for me. (Thank you, Heather!) On 3/31, once I began listening to everyone’s moving stories about lack of access to healthcare, I wish that I’d arrived earlier and signed up to testify. I’ve heard many express that they don’t feel like the Healthcare is a Human Right campaign here in Vermont is focusing enough on increasing access to traditional medicines (herbalism, acupuncture, midwifery/homebirth, massage therapy, etc). You know why that is? Cuz we haven’t been showing up enough and putting in work! This movement, like any, is shaped by those who show up, that means y*o*u! And me, too. So I’m showing up via written word, and I hope that others will turn out to show support and/or send in a written testimony!


What’s happening: The health care bill, H.202 (a bill seeking to establish a Vermont based universal/single payer healthcare system), passed the House last week by a vote of 92-49! This is the result of lots of hard work by thousands of Vermonters who care about making health care a human right in Vermont. At the 3/31 Senate Hearing for patients and "consumers" of health care services – 60 signed up to speak and all but 3 spoke out in favor of healthcare for all. The next Senate hearing is for Healthcare Providers Thurs April 7, 6-8pm– Everyone Welcome! People's stories affect the outcome of any legislation – and this is your chance to tell the Senate Committee members how the current health care system affects you, your family, and your clients - how you'd like to see the system changed and what the human right to healthcare means to you. If you plan on testifying, or would like someone to read comments on your behalf, please show up early in order to sign up and keep your testimony to 2 minutes. If testifying isn't your thing, please know that coming to watch others testify is a great way to provide moral support for those that are speaking up!!! Please see info above. If you have any questions, please contact Heather Pipino at bettypageturner@gmail.com or 802-595-1671

As we get closer to actually establishing healthcare as a public good in Vermont, the opponents of this movement are turning up the heat. It is really important that we continue to be a presence and a voice for health care justice. Please join us if you can and spread the word to your networks. For more info see: http://www.workerscenter.org/healthcare


Save the Date!!

Healthcare is a Human Right! Rally at the Statehouse in Montpelier: Sun May 1st 11am A lot will be happening in the days and weeks leading up to this, please help us make this march and rally HUGE! Join Sen. Bernie Sanders and thousands of Vermonters all over the state as we build a movement for Vermont to be the first state to have universal healthcare. Share with your friends, family, neighbors and co-workers! http://www.workerscenter.org/may1

My Testimonial: (Feel free to leave comments!!)
Hello.
My name is Dana L Woodruff and I’m speaking today as a Community Herbalist and Health Educator. I’m able-bodied and fortunately in good health and have not often needed to call upon the medical system often in my life. I’ve had periods of being insured and others when I’ve been uninsured. Many in our community are much more dependent on the mainstream medical system, needing insulin, dialysis, or surgeries for basic survival. While I am grateful for the existence of this mainstream medicine for emergency response and acute care this is but one form of healthcare. I believe absolutely that healthcare is a human right. This right is not only about increasing access to doctors, specialists, and medications. What is broken about our system is not only the masses that it excludes through both cost and policy, but also how limited our view has become of what kind of healthcare is considered legitimate. Strolling down Main Street you may notice the window display of Montpelier Pharmacy filled with bottles and jars of old-time extracts and liniments made with plants. Not long ago, the pharmacy and doctor’s housecall bags were filled with such herbal medicines. Herbalism, midwifery, and other holistic practices thrived long before the American Medical Association formed and began its campaign to discredit their legitimacy and close down their schools. Even still, it is often herbalism, acupuncture, massage therapy, and other traditional forms of holistic healthcare that have brought relief from chronic pain and insomnia, have prevented surgery and lowered blood pressure, have improved quality of life and returned the body to health long-term. I imagine that the logistical details of putting the idea of universal healthcare into practice here in Vermont can be an overwhelming task. I’m asking this evening that in the process of the important work of determining the specifics of what services will and will not be covered that you will consider the healthcare needs and choices of many Vermonters who want increased access to both mainstream medicine as well as preventative care and traditional holistic healthcare services. Thank you.

Tuesday, April 05, 2011

Keep on Calling to Free Oscar López Rivera!


Students, senators, family, friends, celebrities, and other community members from the U.S., Puerto Rico, and beyond who support the release of Political Prisoner Oscar López Rivera have been continuing to call in to the US Parole Commission. (To see Oscar’s art, learn more about his contributions to the community, and his case, see my earlier blog posts at Freedom for Oscar López Rivera and The Campaign to Free Oscar López Rivera Continues! or visit the Boricua Human Rights website)
East Coasters (U.S.) - Tuesday is our day! Those calling from the Midwest have been calling on Wednesdays and Thursdays, and the West Coast as been calling Thursdays or Fridays. Please mark your calendars and take a few moments to call into the USPC to call for the end to Oscar’s nearly 30 years of incarceration for his commitment to the liberation of the people and land of Puerto Rico. The USPC may tell you that you must put your comments into writing. You can print out a letter to sign and mail in. I’ve printed out extra letters and have been carrying them with me to work, on errands, and to events that I attend to share with others and mailing in the signed letters. If you can let the Boricua Human Rights Network know the number of letters you’re sending in, it helps them keep track of how many supporters are in touch with the USPC. Also, continue to call! Leave a message with the operator if you can, or leave a message on their voicemail if they put you through or if you call outside of business hours. Your calls, your letters, and your faxes really do count. Asking friends, family members, co-workers, and people in organizations that you’re a part of to sign letters of support for Oscar not only builds a stronger movement calling for his release, it is also a great way to spark conversations about US Political Prisoners, incarceration, and issues affecting communities near and far.
If you’re already familiar with the case, you can call (301) 492-5990 and hit 0 to speak to operator or leave a voicemail. You can simply say “Hello, I’m calling for the release of Oscar López #87651-024 and I live in Vermont [NY, ME, MI, etc.] The Parole Commission should reconsider its order denying him parole, and grant him immediate parole.” For a phone script and for the letter to print out and mail in and/or fax, please click here.
Another way to show some love and raise awareness about Oscar’s (and others’) incarceration is to wear your message. May 29th marks the 30th anniversary of Oscar López Rivera's arrest, and to commemorate this a new OLR t-shirt (image above) has been created and is on sale now! The t-shirt is available in med, large, XL, and 2XL. Each shirt costs $20 plus $5 shipping and handling in continental US and Puerto Rico. The designer, Michael Reyes, is Oscar's nephew and a portion of the sale of each t-shirt goes to the campaign to free Oscar.

To order, please mail your check and t-shirt size to:

National Boricua Human Rights Network
2739 W. Division Street
PASEO BORICUA
Chicago, IL 60622
I know I’m sending my check in soon and hope to see others rocking one soon, too! Many thanks for taking the time to support our community members who are locked up for their political belief, community actions, and dedication to freedom.
Please be in touch if you have questions or comments!

Thursday, March 03, 2011

(Im)migration and Lip Balms for Social Justice?!


No More Deaths/No Más Muertes banner. Lip Balms for Social Justice workshop - with a 
popular education (im)migration activity mapping the journeys of our ancestors across 
oceans and borders and the journey our lip balms will take from Vermont, US to the 
Mexican-US border where they'll be distributed by No More Deaths/No Más Muertes.


So what does Lip Balm have to do with Social Justice? Well, it all began when I first heard of the work of No More Deaths/No Más Muertes, a humanitarian aid organization that provides water and first aid care to those crossing the border from Mexico into Arizona. But the story reaches back further...

To be honest, I'm not quite sure how to approach the topic of (im)migration to truly do this complex issue justice. The word immigration is often followed by dehumanizing, inflammatory terms and racist slurs.  So let me just use "I statements"...

My ancestors are boatpeople. Some came on the Mayflower. Some came later from the islands and coast of Scotland. Some are said to have been sent here as criminals for poaching the King's deer instead of guarding the forest, while others came during an Gorta Mór ("the great hunger") aka the Great Famine in Ireland.  Although I was born here, my ancestors crossed an ocean to get here.

Honestly, t
he term "American" makes me cringe. This term and the very foundation of this nation is built upon racism, genocide, theft, and imperialism. Claiming this non-specific term also erases our neighbors both to the North and South of us. It reminds me of the hours upon hours, years upon years of history classes filled with misinformation, silenced voices, and atrocities re-written into feel-good stories appropriate for middle school plays. There is so much history that I don't know, but what I am sure about is that in the big scheme of things, a couple hundred years, or even 400 years, is not long at all. I don't feel entitled to this country because some of my ancestors may have came over on what the colonial powers-that-be consider the "right" boat, at the "right" time, or for the "right" purposes.


People who claim lineage to the so-called great beginnings of this nation often don't want to talk about slavery or genocide past or present. The Pilgrims that I am descended from enslaved indigenous people. I don't feel a sense of pride that I am able to be a member of the Mayflower society, nor do I believe that it's honest to claim to be seeking freedom - religious or otherwise - while shackling others. Also, lot of people with Irish ancestry came over during the Famine, but we don't often learn the real reasons that the potato blight was so devastating, why the people were so dependent upon a single crop. Like the famine in Ethiopia that took place during my youth, the Irish Famine was not solely an agricultural issue. Both nations were exporting food while the people starved.  To read about the harsh reality in Ireland during the Starvation/Eviction, see Gerard Keegan's book the Famine Diary.

Kilmainham Gaol (Jail) in Dublin, Ireland was completely maxed out from jailing all the
people who "stole" food in order to survive, while the English evicted people from their
homes and exported food from Ireland. This chart shows the rates of prisoners held at
Kilmainham. That dramatic spike is during the starvation/genocide of the Irish people.

So often, white people in this country - who are immigrants and descendants of immigrants - have forgotten the history of our own ancestors.  I don't know all the personal stories of my own ancestors, but every day I can see ways that their journeys and histories have shaped me.  I can see how history plays out all around us, in our communities and media and government and personal relationships.  I don't know all the details about my ancestor's journeys across the ocean and how they were treated when they arrived, but I know how I would want to be treated and supporting those who are im/migrating today and working for immigrant and racial justice feels like medicine for past traumas and grief that they may have experienced and/or caused.

The organization No More Deaths/No Más Muertes not only provides people coming North across the desert with vital first aid supplies and water, they also take action against racist anti-immigration policies. While I wholehearted support the actions and beliefs of No More Deaths/No Más Muertes, I didn't feel that I could up and go there to volunteer. I wanted to find a way that I could support their efforts from afar, here in my local community. I looked over their wishlist and saw that they needed Antibiotic ointment and Lip balms, so I contacted them to see if they would like homemade herbal salve and lip balm. They did! So I re-named my salve and lip balm-making workshops "Lip Balms (or Herbal Salves) for Social Justice," and in these workshops participants learned how to make their own herb-infused oils, lip balms, and salves, and we made enough for everyone to bring some home, and to send to No More Deaths. Directions for making herbal salves and lip balms are included below.

I have added an activity to the workshop, a popular education exercise that maps the journeys of our ancestors across oceans and land borders. Popular Education is a form of learning rooted in social justice and is itself a tool for social change. Pop Ed is participatory, knowing that education is meant to be empowering for individuals and communities. Rather than mainstream methods of teaching that impose hierarchies, where the teacher holds the knowledge that the students need, popular education knows that the people have the knowledge and power to determine what’s best for ourselves and our communities. Based on reciprocity and liberation, popular education puts education in the hands of the people, where it belongs.
 


(Im)migration: A movement exercise
The purpose of this activity is to explore how groups of people have moved across the globe, most often for economic reasons, and to inspire more heart- and justice-centered conversations about immigration. Supplies needed include: a ball of string or yarn for each participant, more balls of string or yarn for the map (preferably darker colors so that the participants' stand out more) or a large laminated world map, a large space – in a gym/rec center/outdoors, and tape (or another way to secure the yarn/string).  If using a laminated map, each participant can have a colored marker instead of yarn and tape.

Please give a disclaimer: Some participants may not know the answers to some of these questions about their ancestry, due to adoption, slavery, internment, genocide, or other potentially painful reasons. Or people may be indigenous and not move far or at all across the map. Allow people the option to pass and create space for them to speak up in discussion, if they are comfortable sharing. I also like to pass around Heart Elixir (along with an alcohol-free Rose petal-Hawthorn berry remedy) as part of acknowledging that we're exploring topics that may be difficult to discuss.

Have participants create a map of the globe by placing string on the ground in the shape of the world’s continents and larger islands.   Or you can use a large laminated global map.

1. Give each participant a ball of string or yarn and then give them the following instructions:
2. "Let's find this location (where the activity is taking place) and, keeping hold of our own ball of string, place the end of the string here and tape it down."
3. “Leaving a trail behind you with your string, go to your place of your birth.”
4. “Now go to where your grandparents were born, again leaving a trail of string to trace the journey.” (Some people may have grandparents from very different areas on the globe, let participants voice this, or you can voice it, and participants can go to the various countries, leaving a trail of string behind them.)
5. “Leaving a path, go to the place where your ancestors/your people are from, if this is different from where your grandparents were born.”
6. “Why did your family move all this distance?” Answers may include: I-don’t-know, looking for work, deportation, seeking economic opportunity, theft of land, fleeing war or starvation, slavery, natural disaster. If the group does not voice this, note that often, even with so-called natural disasters such as famine or hurricanes, these situations are, if not orchestrated, then often exploited by powers-that-be. Example, both Ireland and Ethiopia, during their famines were exporting food to other countries that dominated them. And corporations and government descended upon New Orleans post-Hurricane Katrina and the 2004 Tsunami to rebuild it in their own interests - pushing out working-class people of color to ‘develop’ whiter, more privatized areas. (See The Shock Doctrine: The Rise of Disaster Capitalism by Naomi Klein) Likewise, the earthquake in Haiti was made much worse by the poverty and deforestation caused by racist imperialism.

(Optional)  7. “Look at the web we’ve created just with our small group.” (Give them a moment to look around to see the big picture.) “Now look on the tag to see where your shirt was made. What country was your clothing made in? Now carry your string to where it was made.” (People may not know where the countries listed on their tags are. If participants don’t make note of it, do voice that often the people who make our clothes live in countries very far away, probably working in a sweatshop, and then the clothes travel all the way to us. Why is this? Depending on the group and their ancestry, this last step can potential lead the string to areas of the map that had previously been unvisited.)

Now sit down for a quieter conversation. Going around in a circle, ask the following questions. (You can remind people that they can pass if there’s information that they don’t know about their family, or that they don’t feel like sharing.) If the group answers more popcorn-style rather than going around in a circle, make sure that you allow space for everyone to speak, not just a vocal few.

1. “In general, what were the reasons for people leaving their homelands or migrating?” (Often economically-based)
2. “How did they get here?” Answers may include: don’t know, Ellis Island, “illegally” crossing the border – if there seems to be some anti-immigrant sentiment in the air, you can take this opportunity to remind or inform people that much of what is now considered the southwestern US used to be part of Mexico. Or that Puerto Rico is considered a territory of the US, so people moving to the mainland of the US from there aren’t immigrants. Or that the term “America” doesn’t exclusively mean the US, but that Canada and Mexico are included in North America, that the Americas span two continents.  And in conversations about the US and who belongs here, indigenous people are often completely excluded from the conversation. 
(If the term "illegal" is used to refer to people, you could let them know about the Drop the I-Word campaign.)
3. “Why are we taught to hate immigrants? How and why is xenophobia part of the very foundation of the US nation-state? Why are immigrants used as scapegoats for a wide variety of social problems? How is tracing the journeys of our ancestors connected with where our clothes come from today?” (Capitalism moves goods and people.)

Questions can be changed according to the participants, focus of conversation, etc.
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Now back to the herbals salves and lip balms...
The night after leading the first workshop I thought to myself that I now needed to find someone that speaks Mexican Spanish, willing to help me translate the ingredient list. That very night I met Melanie, a Volunteer for Peace from Mexico. That night we went through my apothecary, smelling Chamomile flowers and Lavender essential oil, navigating in both Spanish and English to translate the list. I also include images of the plants on the labels, so that even if people don't read Spanish (as some folks maybe not be literate in Spanish and/or may speak indigenous languages) or knew the plants by different common names, they could still maybe recognize the plants. I also makes for more beautiful labels and I believe this is part of the medicine as well. I heard back from someone that works with No More Deaths that there was a young indigenous woman who was in shock from the entire experience of migrating and was comforted to receive a remedy that she was familiar with. 

These kind of report-backs from No More Deaths make all the time and energy poured into the workshops and remedies well worth it.  And my community is hopefully benefiting by co-creating a space where we can openly discuss topics of immigration, ancestry, and racism- topics that are sometimes taboo, volatile, or ignored. It's my hope that having these conversations in the context of herbs, solidarity, and community health, can help move the conversation from political arguments and create space for personal stories, understanding, and facilitate community and ancestral healing.

While deciding on ingredients for the salves and lip balms I sent an herbal call-out, to draw upon the creativity and experience of friends, teachers, and acquaintances. I inquired about the best herbs and oils to use for extreme desert conditions, taking into considerations what also grows locally where I live, and what grows abundantly, rather than using at-risk or endangered herbs. Thank you to all who shared their thoughts!

For the salve:
Though it's soothing and incredibly healing, I didn't want to use Comfrey leaf or root. It's so good at cell regeneration that it can actually seal over a wound and cause an abscess. Definitely not good for folks in dire circumstances with open blisters and other wounds, and a lack of water for drinking, let alone cleaning wounds. I decided on Calendula and Yarrow. Calendula was the first plant I choose when I reclaimed Mom's garden from the groundhogs when I was in high school. I didn't even know that it was medicinal or edible, I was just drawn to it. Turns out it was one of my grandmother's favorites and in the years since her passing my mom has found little packets of Calendula seeds my grandmother had gathered. I love that it is simultaneously powerfully anti-bacterial and healing, while also being gentle enough for babies and elders. 


I love Yarrow for its protective qualities, both physically and energetically. The plant's botanical names is Achillea millefolium. Achillea refers to Achilles and there are many stories about how the Greek hero is associated with this plant. Some say he used Yarrow on the battlefield to heal the wounds of his soldiers. Another tale is that his mother made a bath of Yarrow for him when he was a baby and dipped him into the bath. She held him by his heel, the one place that was not bathed by the protective qualities of Yarrow, and the site of his fatal wound. It's a powerful warrior plant, and like Calendula, cleans wounds from the inside out. You can chew on the fresh or dried flower and leaf and place it right into even a deep wound to stop the bleeding. You can leave the plant material in your wound for its anti-bacterial properties and just cover it with a bandage. (And you can bathe/clean it later.) I love the combination of the Calendula from my garden and the Yarrow from the wild, and my hope is that Yarrow gives people protection on their journey across the border and beyond. I infuse the herbs in fair-trade Palestinian olive oil for a month, melt local Beeswax into it, and add a few drops of Self-heal or other flower essences for a simple and strong all-purpose antibacterial salve. (I send this in large quantities to humanitarian aid organizations and also make a small batch to keep closer to home, named Global Citizen Salve and available here.)

For the lip balm: I chose fresh St. Johns wort buds and flowers infused in Olive oil, melted with fair-trade Shea Butter from a women's collective in Burkina Faso, West Africa and local Beeswax, due to the mild sunscreen properties of those ingredients, as well as the anti-bacterial, soothing, and healing action of the St. Johns wort. (Sometimes I add Lavender and Tea tree essential oils to the lip balms or salves to add even more anti-bacterial and wound-healing properties.)


St. Johnswort buds and blossoms, Herb-infused oil for 
Salve-making, and Yarrow in bloom.


How to Make Herbal Salves and Lip Balms

Making your own herb infused oils is simple and inexpensive~ all you need is herbs, oil, and a glass jar. The process is similar to making tea, but instead of extracting the herb’s medicine into water, you’re using oil. The oil may not necessarily take the scent of the herb you’re using, but will draw out certain healing properties. Whether you’re making a medicinal oil to heal wounds, a massage oil to soothe sore muscles, or an oil to anoint yourself with before or after bathing, the process is the same.

Making herb infused oils from fresh plants:
●Find the herb in a place that feels good, away from busy roads and pesticide-sprayed lawns and fields. Harvest only what you need and give thanks to the plants, however you wish.
●Place the fresh herbs in a dry, clean glass jar, filling it about ½ full. You can put your plant material in whole or tear it up into smaller bits; I prefer doing some of both. You can let the herbs wilt in a basket for a few hours or overnight first, so that some of its moisture can evaporate and it will be less likely to grow bacteria in your oil.
●Cover your herbs with oil and use a clean knife or stick to release all the little air bubbles and to completely surround the herb with the oil.
●Place the lid on and put the jar in a warm space under 100° F and let infuse for an entire moon cycle (if not possible, then for at least 2 weeks). In the summer, you can keep your oil in a sunny windowsill or out in the sunshine. In the winter, you can keep your oil near the stove or heating vents. You can also leave the lid off and cover the jar with a piece of cheesecloth – this way moisture can rise out and bugs and other things won’t fly or fall in.  Just be sure to put it in a spot where it won't get knocked over. The warmth and time draws certain properties from the herb, infusing your oil with medicine. You may want to put a rag underneath the jar, as some of the oil may seep out and make a mess.
●Keep an eye on the oil. If at any point moisture appears on the exposed edges of the jar, wipe it out with a piece of cloth or paper towel. Mold may begin to grow if there is too much moisture, either from the fresh plant or if your container is not fully dry. Even if mold appears, you don’t need to throw your oil out! Just spoon off the mold and keep an eye on the oil, in case more appears.  As long as it doesn't smell rancid or like blue cheese, it's
●Strain the oil through a metal strainer or cloth (I find muslin works better than cheesecloth), squeezing it to get the full amount of medicine out.
●Compost the herb and bottle the oil in a widemouth jar. Water and gunk may settle on the bottom of the jar after a day or two. If this happens, siphon/pour the good oil on the top into another dry, clean jar. You may have to do this a couple of times, but it’s important. If you leave the gunk, the oil may quickly go bad.
●Label your oil, including the name of the herb, the date, and any other details you wish to add (moon phase, where you harvested the herb, your intention for the oil), and store in a cool, dark place. Most oils keep for many months, up to a year. Some, like St. Johns wort bud oil, can last much longer. You can add vitamin E or essential oils such as Lavender or Rosemary to lengthen the oil’s shelf life – this is an especially good idea if you’re giving oil as a gift and the person may not use it right away.
A note on fresh herbs: certain herbs have properties that inhibit the growth of bacteria, while others don’t. For this reason, some people only use dried herbs when making infused oils. But the sight of sunlight streaming in through a jar of fresh herbs infusing in oil on the windowsill is worth the trouble of keeping a closer eye on it. Feel free to experiment with different herbs you’re drawn to. Keep an eye on them and if they smell rancid, give them back to the earth and try again, or try the dried herb or another herb altogether. You can add a bit of grain alcohol to your oil as the herbs are infusing to help preserve the oil. I usually add just a teaspoon of grain alcohol per quart of oil.
Making herb infused oils from dry plants:
●Choose the dry herb you’d like to use. You can use herbs that you dried yourself, or buy them at a co-op, natural food store, or by mail order. When buying herbs, crush the herb between your fingers and smell it, and notice the color and appearance. Every herb is different, but in general, it should maintain its scent and color. If you are unsure if it still possesses its vital energy, move on and find another herb that clearly does.
●Place the dried herbs in a dry, clean glass jar. When using dried plants, you only need to fill the jar 1/3 – ½ full, as the medicinal properties of the plant are more concentrate once the water has evaporated out.
●Follow the instructions above. As long as you make sure your jar is dry, you should have no trouble with mold growing.
Using the double boiler method:
If you don’t have the time to let the oil draw out the herb’s medicine slowly, you can use this method:
●Place the herbs and oil together in a double boiler. If you don’t have a double boiler, you can rig one up by resting a metal bowl over a pot of water. You can also use a crock pot.
●Slowly warm the herbs at the lowest temperature for at least 30-60 minutes. Some people infuse their oil for multiple days this way. Check often to make sure that the oil is not too hot; you don’t want to cook your herbs in the oil, just warm them. The longer you’re able to warm the oil at a low temperature, the stronger medicine your oil will be.
●Let the oil cool and then strain it through a cloth and label, as described above.

Choosing your oil:
For medicinal oils, the most commonly used oil is Olive oil. Extra virgin cold pressed is best. Olive oil lasts longer and is less expensive than most other oils. Grapeseed oil is also commonly used and is more lightweight than olive oil, but I've had it go bad on me really quick. Sesame oil makes a nice warming massage oil. Jojoba oil is the closest to our body’s own natural oil, so you can use it on your face without clogging your pores. Almond oil is good for dry, mature, and sensitive skin. You can also experiment with apricot kernel, avocado, and other oils.

Some possibilities for infused oils:
Wound-Healing Oil with herbs such as Calendula blossoms, Yarrow leaf and flower, St. Johns wort blossom, and Plantain leaf. ). Note: Comfrey encourages cell regeneration so well that it can actually seal in an infection, so be sure the wound is clean before applying. If your wound is difficult to clean, Yarrow or Calendula would be a better choice. Sore Muscle Soothing Oil with St. Johns wort, Goldenrod, and Ginger oils, and a touch of Cayenne to increase circulation. Breast/Chest Massage Oil safe enough to use regularly and for your monthly self-exam with Calendula, Dandelion blossom, Plantain leaf, and Red clover blossom. And remember, doing breast/chest massage/self-exams – is beneficial for everyone, not only cisgender (non-transgender) women!  Self-massage helps to promote circulation and lymph movement, release held emotions, connect with and better know our own bodies, and to be aware of any changes that may occur so that we can get them checked out by a healthcare provider. Energetic Protection/Anointing Oil with Yarrow leaf and flower or St. Johns wort blossom. Dreamtime Oil for restful sleep with Lavender and Chamomile.
You can massage in your oil before or after bathing, or add a bit directly to the bathwater. By applying your oil before bathing, you allow the warmth of the bath or shower to penetrate deeper into our bodies and the massage promotes circulation, which is very welcomed during our cold winter months! Remember to take care when your bath is finished, as the floor may be slippery. Just squirt a bit of soap on the bathtub/shower floor, rub it down, and rinse.
Herbal Salves and Balms
A salve is a blend of oil, herbs, and wax, used externally to soothe and heal the skin, and ease tight muscles, sore joints, and other parts. Depending on the herbs you choose, you can make a heal-all salve for cuts, dry skin, burns, stings, and scrapes, or you can make ones for specific ailments such as bites, diaper rash, and fungus. There are many methods for making herbal salves. Here is one way:
Warm 1 cup of herb-infused oil in a double boiler or a pan over very low heat. Add 4 tablespoons of grated or chopped beeswax, stir, and let the wax slowly melt into the oil. This proportion should make a loose, soft salve. Dip a spoon into the mixture and blow on it until it’s solid or put in the freezer for a few minutes to cool quicker. If the salve is too hard, add more oil. If it’s too soft, add more beeswax. Once you get it to the consistency you’re seeking, remove from heat and pour the salve into dry, clean containers right away. If you wait too long, the salve will begin to harden in the pot. Either just before or just after you pour the salve into containers, you can mix in extra ingredients such as vitamin E oil or essential oils. Each essential oil (e.o.) is different but they are all highly concentrated. If I include e.o.s I do it in small amounts - ie. 1-2 drops of e.o. per lip balm tube and 2 or 3 drops e.o. per ounce. If you choose to add them before pouring, give the liquid a stir so that it all blends together. Give the salve or balm some time to sit so that it can solidify. Salve making can be messy, so leave yourself some time for clean up and some bare skin to rub your extra/spilled oils into! Also, be sure to have plenty of extra jars because when the oil and wax warm and blend all together a magic alchemical reaction always seems to happen, somehow making more salve appear.
Most salves keep for about a year. They last longer if kept in a cool, dark place, rather than letting them melt and remelt in a hot car, for example. You can use an array of herbs, oils, waxes, and other ingredients. Lip balms are made as above, but usually with more beeswax, for a harder consistency. Body butters are usually softer, with less beeswax, and often include coconut oil and/or cocoa butter, both of which melt at body temperature.
Some possibilities for salves and balms:
Heal-All Salve with Calendula blossoms, Plantain leaf, Comfrey leaf, and St. Johnswort flowers. Belly Balm with Cocoa butter to help the skin to stretch during pregnancy. Anti-Fungal Salve with Calendula blossoms and Black Walnut hull oils (be aware of tree allergies), and tea tree essential oil. Decongestant Salve with essential oils of peppermint, eucalyptus, thyme, rosemary, pine. Mint Chocolate Lip Balm with Cocoa butter and essential oil of Peppermint. Valentine Lip Gloss with Alkanet root-infused oil (gives a red color). Note: These oils are not latex friendly.
Lip Balm
A general lip balm recipe to begin with, and deviate from.
½ cup Oil of choice (preferably infused with herbs)
3 tablespoons total of Cocoa butter, Shea butter, and/or Coconut oil
¼ cup Beeswax
Essential oil (optional)

Place oil into a heat-proof glass measuring cup and place cup in a hot-water bath. When the oil has warmed, add the rest of the ingredients (besides the essential oil). Stir until ingredients are thoroughly melted. Check the consistency of the balm by dipping a spoon into the warm liquid, waiting for it to cool, and then testing it out (you can quicken this process by using a cold spoon or placing the lip balm-y spoon into the fridge or freezer). Once you’ve reached your preferred consistence, making sure that it’s solid enough not to melt in your pocket, pour into lip balm containers or small tins or glass jars. Just after pouring the still-warm liquid, add 1-2 drops of essential oil per lip balm tube. Add 3-6 drops per ounce into larger containers. Cap the container right away to prevent the essential oil from evaporating and label. Let your balm harden, label, and voila! – your own homemade lip balm! For lip balm being sent to No More Deaths, I add more beeswax to be sure it stays solid in the heat of the day in the desert.
If you don’t use your oils or balms all up before they go off, or you’re not sure of their quality, you can use them for lubricating squeaky hinges and dried-out wooden tool handles. I keep a little salve container in my toolbox for such purposes.

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I hope that this post encourages self-care and community-care with the instructions for infused oil, salve, and lip balm making; That the (im)migration exercise can be adapted into an activity that can be used in various groups in the classroom and at community events to encourage heart-centered, transformative, and action-inciting dialogue about (im)migration - both stories and US policy - and racism; And that the concept of community health is sparking ideas about collaboration with community health projects near and far. Please leave questions, comments, and stories of successes and challenges in the comment area below or send me an email at dandelion778 (at) yahoo (dot) com Thank you!

Questions for Community Health Collaborations:
What grassroots community projects do you respect and want to support? What skills do you feel good about sharing? What supplies or knowledge do you have access to and would like to share? Who in your community may be seeking herbal remedies or holistic healthcare, but lacks access? Who may want to team up with you to support community health efforts?


"If you have come here to help me, you are wasting your time. But if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine, then let us work together." ~ Lilla Watson, Indigenous Australian visual artist, activist, and academic